Breast Reduction

Can potentially negative perceptions be avoidable?

My wife is an all natural beauty. She is told this on a regular basis. She has awesome legs and body shape. This is where the main problem is, she also has naturally huge chests. (We have to special order her bras.) So here the problem. She wears normal clothes, such as shorts and tank tops, to keep cool in the summer. Yet she receives quite alot of negative comments. She has been called many slanderous things, such as a whore or worse. This comes mainly from females. She is often asked if she plans to get a breast reduction. (Talk about rude.) Her clothes are no different than what the average wife would wear, but because she unavoidably has alot of cleavage, along with her other features, alot of people seem to judge her poorly. She never has worn anything riske` or revealing in public, only the average clothes. Question: Is there a way to avoid such negative perceptions without her wearing sweatshirts and pants in summer? If not, what is the best way to cope with it? She had back problems until we started to see a chiropractor. She goes regularly and is fine now. Unfortunately when she lived with her parents, they didn't believe in chiropractors. Thanks for all the constructive feedback. I honestly worry about this since she does care a good deal about what people think of her. She is a very upbeat and active individual, but this will sometimes get her down. I've shared your comments, and will continue to do so. So thank you again for the feedback.

Public Comments

1. Unfortunately no. People are critical and ignorant. Those negative comments shes been getting from females are probably because they are jealous. If she doesn't have an back problems because of her chest, than I wouldn't worry about it. If she is in pain from time to time, I would strongly advise you both to think about a breast reduction. Its only going to get worse with time.
2. I get talked negative about also, I've just learned to shrug it off, because I know that if they had the exact same body build as me, they wouldn't be saying anything. - Somebody everywhere is going to want what your wife has, and they will down-talk her out of envy, or self consciousness. Your wife doesn't need to change! these women just need more self confidence. - Small breasts are great, and I'm sure a lot of men like them, and big breasts are great too, I just wish more women would get over the fact that everyone is different, and realize we are all beautiful, so stop being envious!
3. u are one lucky guy lol
4. she could just wear normal t-shirts? not all tank tops provide that much coverage :/ i personally wouldn't think that anyone was slutty just because they had big boobs, my best friend is very very well endowed, and i've never thought any clothes made her look sluttier than anyone else. even when we went to parties and she wore a tube top. i guess the best choice is to wear things that cover them up more. just wear t-shirts instead of tank tops. or wear like boyfriend style shirts, not spaghetti straps.
5. Let her know that they say those things because they wish that they looked like her. It really is jealousy at it's worse. Ridiculous, but that is how it is...
6. There are a lot of sleeveless shirts out there that have a neckline collar, and square-cut neck shirts and tanks are also very cute, and aren't too revealing. If she is having back pain because of the size of her breasts, then she should really go to a doctor to get reduction, because I have heard of back pain caused from breast size, but if it from something else, she should be proud of who she is and how lucky she is. Sometimes being pretty makes people feel insecure because too many people are jealous. But the world should be on a slow change. Look at the Dove ad campainges, love the skin your in!